Used to be that enjoying anal sex was taboo for women. If a couple did give anal a test drive, it was seen as a once-in-a-while experience—something a woman indulged in for her partner's sake, not because she actually enjoyed it. A little advice first: Enjoying anal means giving your body time to warm up and relax, plus using lots of lubricant. Skipping these steps can cause discomfort or pain.
Anal Orgasms: 35 Tips, Techniques, Positions, Benefits, and More
Good news: Anal sex is becoming less and less taboo. Anal sex provides a different kind of fullness and, with the right partner, can be really, truly intimate especially if it's a first for both of you. Of course, not every woman is going to be into anal I mean, is any sex act a universal turn-on? But many women are here for it, and some can even have full-on anal orgasms. With the right positions and a few helpful pointers, you could be one of them. If it's your first time, check out this anal sex guide from Engle for some solid tips. The skimmed version: You can and should warm up with your fingers, lube is your absolute best friend do NOT pass go without it , and never switch from butt to vag because bacteria, people!
Making sure anal sex is always a fun and pleasurable experience with your man is important if you want to keep your sex life hot. Side Note: I put together this in-depth assesment that will uncover just how good you are at giving oral sex and satisfying your man. It may uncover some uncomfortable truths, or you may discover that you are already a queen at giving blow jobs. Just like there are a ton of different ways to give your man a good blow job , there are also a lot of fun and pleasurable anal sex positions to try with your man!
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